In a pot, bring frozen blueberries, sugar, and lemon juice to simmer, then take off from heat, let cool to room temperature, then process until til smooth, either using immersion blender, or food processor
In a small bowl, mix gelatine and water, then heat in microwave for 30 seconds
In a large bowl, mix cream cheese and icing sugar until creamy then cream in 4 tbsp blueberry mixture
Add in heavy whipping cream, continue beating, followed with 4 more tbsp of blueberry mixture and gelatine liquid, until completely combined
Mix milk and blueberry mixture in a bowl, then moisten ladys fingers. Lay ladys finger in a mold
Drizzle top with blueberry mixture, then spread cream. Repeat steps of layering
Chill for at least 2-4 h or overnight before slicing and serving